Patriotism in the Home

As parents, one of the most meaningful gifts we can give our children is a love for all that God has given them- a very important one being the gift of our country. Patriotism is not about blind loyalty, but about gratitude for the many blessings we enjoy, reverence for the sacrifices made by others, a desire to contribute to the common good, and our duty to give back as citizens. The family is the first unit of politics and the cornerstone of our social landscape. As families, we must teach our children not only to love one another, but to love the nation that we are so blessed to be a part of. 

September 11th is a sobering reminder of this responsibility. Though today's children were not alive during this tragic day, it is essential that we pass along its memory to them in age-appropriate ways. Teaching kids about 9/11 and other key events in American history gives them context for the freedoms and responsibilities they now enjoy. It also helps them develop empathy for those who suffered and admiration for the courage, unity, and resilience that followed.

Practical ways to instill patriotism can be simple but powerful:

  • Tell the stories. Share family memories of historic events (ie. where you were when 9/11 occurred), explain their significance, and pass down the lessons you learned.

  • Honor traditions. Hang the flag, attend community events, and pray for those who protect us: firefighters, police officers, medical first responders, and all those in the armed forces. 

  • Learn together. Visit historical sites, attend local reenactments of historic events, read books about American history, or watch documentaries as a family.

  • Model gratitude. Express thankfulness for the freedoms you enjoy and show respect for those who protect them.

When patriotism is cultivated at home, it shapes children into citizens who see their role in strengthening their communities and caring for their country. Our homes can be the first and most important classrooms for raising young men and women who not only remember history but carry its lessons forward with courage and hope.


"Every good citizen makes his country's honor his own, and cherishes it not only as precious but as sacred."
Andrew Jackson


Patriotic Activities to Do With Your Children

Sometimes doing an activity rather than just talking about something important can help children wrap their minds around complex topics like patriotism. Here are some activities to help them gain a deeper understanding of their country!

Create Your Own American Flags
Whether you use paint, markers, tissue paper, or popsicle sticks, create the American flag with your children and discuss the symbolism of the stars, stripes, and colors involved. 
Read Important Historic Documents Aloud
Reading the Bill of Rights, Constitution, or Federalist Papers aloud with older children can be a great way for them to gain an understanding of the context on which our country was built and lead to interesting conversations about how our political structure works. 
Hold a Mock Election at Home
Depending on the ages of your children, hold a mock election and discuss the American campaigning, voting, and swearing in processes for political officials. 
Write Letters to Veterans
Talk with your children about the sacrifices made by military men and women, and write letters of gratitude to them. Here are some organizations that help facilitate this:
A Million Thanks 
Support Our Troops


Upcoming Seminar in Addison, Illinois: Cooking Italian and Loving It!

Join us on September 20th for a seminar all about traditional Italian cooking! At this event, Theresa Panzica will share her insights on the simple techniques and flavors that make Italian cooking so wonderful. Click the link below to sign up, or contact Kristin Kocan at kristin@kocan.org with any questions.

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